I think marriage means sacrifice on both sides. I have been known to share though because it gets on my nerves when my friends complain to me about how much money we are making Recently by some pure act of coincidence my hubby ended up with a day off on Labor day. I agree she should be able to watch a movie or do her own research. Many Mormon girls place the cart before the horse. You should ask Him what you should do, as no one else can see the end from the beginning and no one else has perfect love for you and for your potential husband.
Thanks for pointing this stuff out. This is normal for residents. I would need to ask my husband again. It will help to come in armed with everything I'm learning from the different perspectives on here though. She might want to follow the 'virgin until marriage' part, or she may personally decide to forego following that in secret. And though most people think I'm the difficult one in the relationship they don't realize he is of stronger opinions he just let's me take the heat from outsiders. I hate that it's all on his terms. I had to tell her to stop communicating with my husband she was fired but he had urged her to "keep in touch!!. This woman has already given two full years fully devoted to the institution without question. If so, then step away from the internet and go look him in the eyes and take his hands and start asking him all the questions you asked me.
These were some tips to keep in mind when dating a Mormon guy or girl. You will be kept abreast of political changes within the church that regulate your wife's behavior -- you are probably already aware of several rules she follows. As a physician buckling under the stress, my assigned counsellor who is also a church minister told me: So, what do I do with that. If you can genuinely deconvert her then cool. Do you schedule time in to talk and see each other. I recommend that talk. And of course, when it happens, no one the leaver or the faithful spouse could have predicted it. Which even the kind ones are. Hey, thanks for the info.
If she is full on Mormon, this relationship will go one of two ways: You will convert and change your entire lifestyle and personality to conform with her expectations never to deconvert or you will face severe penalitesor you will break up because you won't convert and change everything about yourself. And yes, some people are unbelievably stupid about it. I look forward to reading more. She likely hasn't had many long-term relationships and has no idea what dynamics are involved in one. But equally, does this mean you will have to sanction what you do, say and watch regarding Mormonism. A forum for ex-mormons and others who have been affected by mormonism to share news, commentary, and comedy about the Mormon church. I am not a doctor's wife so I won't say I understand, but I will give you a virtual hug. I have been married to an anesthesiologist for 15 years his 2nd marriage. Her experience may or may not be typical, but it is something to consider. He also has sacrificed a more easy lifestyle.