Q: My wife and I had a courtship of 3 years before marriage. During that period we did everything related to sex except penetration, be it oral or masturbating each other or any other activity. Now after marriage my wife is not interested in sex or for that matter the activities we did earlier. My sex needs are almost every alternate day but my wife wants it once in a month. May be the problem did exist before marriage but were not aware of it. We got married 7 years ago and have two childeren. I have tried almost everything from sexual literature, erotic movies, emotional understanding etc. Now I feel deprived of my sexual rights which I would have got if I did not have such a long courtship. This way I may lose intrest in my wife and may indulge in activities which I should not be in. Although I love my wife very much at this stage and even staying away from her for 2 days is difficult.

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With age comes wisdom If sex is painful or uncomfortable for your wife, it makes sense that intimacy has gotten the short shrift, said Elizabeth McGrath, a sex therapist and educator who works in the Bay Area. Sex is about so much more than just, well, sex. Hold her hand. Rub her neck. Over time, your sex life may have gone from hot to humdrum. Instead of dwelling on your lackluster sex life, focus a little more on the emotional connection you share with your wife, Nelson said. And guess what? Repeat it back so you are sure you got it before moving on to the next one. Then, Nelson recommends expanding the conversation by quizzing each other about the three things you enjoy about having sex.
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