Probably too transparent. How do you initiate a threesome? How do you transition into one? And once you get there, how do you, well, have one— which threesome sex positions can you rely on for a good time? You see them in movies and on TV, you read about them in books, and honestly, even without any exposure to them at all, you could probably figure them out. I mean, seriously—missionary is about as straightforward as it gets. But threesome sex positions are decidedly more opaque.

1. Double Cowgirl


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We include products we think are useful for our readers. If you buy through links on this page, we may earn a small commission. You realized you want to have a threesome, and even found two hotties to do it with. Below, sex educators share the best threesome sex positions for oral sex, hand sex, mutual masturbation, double vaginal penetration, double penetration, and everything in between. Porn may have led you to believe that threesomes are all about penetration and double penetration. A threesome is, simply, sex that happens between three people, says sexuality, body, confidence, and kink educator Luna Matatas , creator of Peg The Patriarchy. It can be virtual , in person, or a mix. It can include hand sex , oral sex , solo sex , or a mix. It can feature vaginal intercourse, anal intercourse , both the types of intercourse simultaneously, or a mix. And so much more!
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Whether it's your first threesome or having another threesome is just what happens on Wednesdays, they can be tricky to navigate. Think about how complicated sex is with just one other person having their wants and needs and junk. Then when you add in another person or maybe you use multiplication here? IDK, ask a mathematician , it gets X units more complex. But if you can handle the emotional part, threesomes are definitely sexual bucket list-worthy and can be incredibly hot.
Whatever the scenario: This is the guide for you. And certainly, maneuvering with all those limbs in play can get a little awkward. So how do you keep things hot? This is about pleasure. To that end, communication is key. Tell your partners what makes you orgasm, and ask them what they like best. Make sure everyone is included throughout the session, and give your partners feedback, Easton says. In a threesome, the lines of communication should be open before, during, and after. And in the process of figuring out what people will consent to, it might help to familiarize yourselves with a few basic moves going into the act, with an eye toward keeping movement fluid.